No, we just have to tell him what we plan on doing, and he can tell us not to, or to do it, we go about our lives unless he changes something... but we don't get to go anywhere he doesn't want us to go, or do anything he doesn't want us doing... or cook anything he doesn't feel like eating or wants us to eat. We get to be us, but a better us, because we're letting him decide what's best for us. It's not like "go stand on your head for 30 hours" but more like.... You're going to go visit your father today. or... you're not wearing that, I don't want you to wear this, or, you already ate too much ice-cream today, if you want a snack get some vegetables and chop them up. That kinda better you.
